It is more difficult for men to do the work of emotional development because this work requires individuals to be emotionally aware—to feel. Patriarchy rewards men for being out of touch with their feelings. Whether engaged in acts of violence against women and children or weaker men, or in the socially sanctioned violence of war, men are better able to fulfill the demands of patriarchy if they do not feel. Men of feeling often find themselves isolated from other men. This fear of isolation often acts as the mechanism to prevent males from becoming more emotionally aware.

bell hooks, The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love (2004)
If you liked this, share it!
Facebook
Twitter
Google+
https://www.aguycalledhelen.com/2016/05/05/it-is-more-difficult-for-men-to-do-the-work-of/
Follow by Email
RSS

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *